Stop caring about what everyone thinks
When I started my blog, I was terrified of what people would think. What if they judged me? What if they thought my posts were stupid? But then I realized that none of that mattered. All that matters is this: You have something to say and a place to say it. So use it!
Accept that you are different
Accept that you are different. You are not like everyone else, and that's okay. You may be a nerd or a weirdo or an outcast, but there's nothing wrong with being different. In fact, if everyone was exactly the same then the world would be so boring!
Accepting your differences is something that should begin in childhood and continue throughout life. It will help you to understand that there are people out there who look at life differently than yourself and it will make you more content with who you are as an individual rather than how others perceive you to be.
Embrace your uniqueness.
You are unique, and that is a good thing. Embrace your quirks, faults and imperfections because they make you special. Your friends like you because of who you are, not what others think of you. You don’t need to fit in with everyone else.
Don't worry about what other people think of your appearance or personality as long as it makes sense to yourself, family members and close friends
If someone gives a negative opinion on how you look or act then smile politely then walk away from them
Understand your strengths and weaknesses.
It's easy to get caught up in the opinions of others, especially when they're negative. But it's important to understand your strengths and weaknesses, both as a person and a professional.
You can't change your strengths, but there are always things that you can work on improving. Whether it's researching or asking questions before starting projects so that you don't make mistakes later on, or even making sure that everything is checked two or three times before sending something out into the world—these are all ways in which we all have room for improvement. You should never be ashamed of something that makes you unique either; whether it's an unusual hobby or favorite pastime (or even just something as simple as having weird-colored hair), embrace whatever makes YOU who YOU are!
Do not answer to the streets
Everyone is allowed to have their own opinions and beliefs, but when it comes to you, your life, and the choices you make—trust yourself.
Don’t let other people's opinions of you dictate your self-worth or the way that others see you. If someone does not like something about you or has something negative to say about the decisions that you make for yourself, then let them be wrong. Do not give power over your life and happiness by allowing them to decide what is right for everyone else.
You are an individual with a unique personality, mind set and experiences that makes up who “you” are as a person; therefore do not allow anyone but yourself define these things!
Start counting on yourself
So, you've got some self-doubt. Maybe you're not the most perfect person out there, and that's okay! But if you constantly rely on others to validate your self-worth and make you feel good about yourself, then it's time for a change.
The way I see it, there are three main areas where people tend to depend too much on others: validation of their worth as a person; feeling good about themselves; and making sure things get done right (or at least as close to "right" as possible).
Don't feel sorry for yourself
Don’t feel sorry for yourself.
Don’t compare yourself to others.
Don’t feel inferior because you are not like someone else.
Don't feel superior because you are better than someone else.
Don't feel sorry for yourself because you are not as good as someone else.
Don’t feel sorry for yourself because you are not as good as someone else. Don't compare yourself to others. Don't feel inferior because you are not like someone else.
Everyone is designed differently, and just because you class your own self as a superficial human being, does not mean that you are in any way inferior to someone who possesses more "depth" than you.
It is imperative that you begin to understand and accept your uniqueness. You are not like everyone else, and this should be no cause for shame or regret. Rather than wishing to be someone else, you need to learn how to embrace the fact that you are different from them. Your differences make you special; they are what makes your own self worth loving, so never feel sorry for yourself because of them.
Every single person has their own struggles in life—things they are good at but struggle with as well; strengths and weaknesses that they might not fully recognize or appreciate until they have come face-to-face with them on numerous occasions throughout their lives. Understand that there will always be someone better than you at something, but also know that there will always be someone worse than you as well; therefore it is up to yourself as an individual human being whether or not this matters in any way whatsoever!
Conclusion
It is important to remember that you are not alone, every human being on Earth has their own set of strengths and weaknesses. There will be people who are more well-rounded than you, but so what? The main thing is not to let other people's opinions affect your self-esteem. If they do then they've already won this battle because now it's all about how much power they have over you!